Advice for people in LDR this valentine from this pro author

Hi, when you’re in love, everything around you feels beautiful, isn’t it? The weather, heat/cold, whatever! You tend to feel good even when you fall sick just because you know there is someone who cares for you irrespective of the distance.

Valentine’s Day always sounds special, least to me, I don’t know why. I was in hate for years. Still, this day made me feel special about myself. Like how free I was to smile at a good-looking guy wandering alone in town…probably he was single? Hmmm. Then my thoughts would wrestle, ‘No idiot, he is coming back after dropping his girlfriend home’

Oh! Okay… 😀

Let’s leave my story aside! Okay?  [DM me for more details 😉 ]

I’ve sorted few things like what you guys in Long-distance-relationship can really do.

Call him/Skype/facetime/imo or emo or whatever!

So you’d been single for quite some time and this seem to be your first valentine after years of wars with yourself?  You deserve to feel special, but he/she is not around? Awwww! Do one thing, call him/her and talk to each other the entire day.


But dear lovers, what’s the point if you fight for all 364 days and pretend to love just for one damned day?

Write an essay about him, girls!

Like how you girls (I am no exception, just acting smart because I am the damned author of this post, LOL!) write an essay instead of the caption on your friend’s birthday in Instagram or facebook. Sometimes write about him and mail him. If you could write and send letters in old school style, that would be so romantic, trust me.



Guys, write what you love the most about her.

Okay guys, no need to write an essay about her unless you are fond of writing. Girls love those long specific descriptions, though! It’s okay, try and tell her how much you adore when she drunk-talks or how good she looks without makeup or something like that. Make it sound unusually romantic.

Write a cute poem for your partner. 

Yasss! I can do that. Oh, it’s suddenly like writing tips for myself here, haha!

Yeah, write a cute love poem for your significant other, you don’t have to be a poet for that, just make it short and romantically cute. Or make a video, narrate your poem and send via WhatsApp, how hard is that?

Surprise them with bouquets or special deliveries….like food!

How could I miss this, you can always opt for special deliveries unless your better half stays in Kalimpong-My bad! 😀


Okay so, fuck the miles, fuck it!

Love each other without borders. Yeah, love has no boundaries so why ruin your day thinking about the distance? Do little things that would make each others day.

Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone in Love or hate, may you be special for now and for forever.
Keep Loving, keep reading, and keep following caffeine and copies. (like and share) 🙂

Love, Varinka Turquoise.


Deal with your break-up!

Traveling from southern part of India to north-east, again to south and back home. Blogging in this rigorous schedule almost became a myth of my life. A promised musical-blog up to come but before that let’s have a bit of fun prior to valentines day. Let me remind you of those exes who promised to betroth you past many 14th February. To those souls who said, ‘I can’t live without you.’  Ask one question this time, ‘Are you dead yet?’

Okay, jokes apart let me get serious on this business.

After repetitive episodes of love and un-love, he came back to the peace of your life eh?



So what now? Keep him? Or overlook his existence and carry on with your life? Well, that would definitely be the most complicated task if you feel you still love him.


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Okay, give him a chance and make sure he puts all of his effort to make things right. But if you feel he is wasting your time, un-love him and move on. Cheers*





But like my case, if you re-meet exes of an ex, i.e your ex before your recent ex, what would you do?
Give him a chance to emotionally crumble you down once again?
Okay ‘good-luck.’


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You might have the tendency to look at the messages which he wrote to you when he was in love with you, why don’t you just format your phone? Remove the pictures you’ve taken together? And replace your folders with selfies with your best friends.



Best people!


Dogs? Women’s best friend, do you have one? Yes!
Why do you even worry about the lack of companionship? You have your dog with you, just know that your pets are better than your exes.




Shop for yourself, shoes? Yes, like your head might be fucked but your shoes should be admirable enough to carry on. Just get those damned shoes




And you might pause in a name while scrolling down your contacts in your phone. Delete the number without any hesitation.


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Press that damned delete button! 

Happy living


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Ta da! That’s it for now.
See you real soon.

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